
Thomas Pounds MBACP
Welcome,
my name’s Tom
I'm a BACP Registered Counsellor based in Bournemouth, Dorset. I offer counselling to adults (18+) on an individual basis, providing face-to-face counselling locally, as well as remote counselling for clients across the UK.
I offer a warm, authentic and non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can explore your experiences, develop greater self-understanding, and work towards meaningful changes and growth that feels aligned with your values. I’m Neurodivergent-Affirming and Autism-Informed, and I aim to provide a space where all clients can feel understood, accepted and supported.
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What I Can Support With
Recognising & Regulating Emotions
Masking
Burnout
Shutdowns
Meltdowns
Sensory Overwhelm
Exploring Identity
Exploring Neurodivergence
Changes & Life Transitions
Relationship Difficulties
Imposter Syndrome
Low Self-Esteem
Low Self-Confidence
Anger
Depression
Anxiety
Stress
Trauma
Bereavement
Neurodivergent-affirming Counselling
As a Neurodivergent person myself, I bring lived experience alongside professional training, which informs my understanding and the way I work with neurodivergent clients. I work within an Autism-Informed and Neurodivergent-Affirming approach, with Autism, ADHD and AuDHD being key areas of my continued professional development and training.
I view neurodivergence as a natural difference in the way people experience, process and interact with the world, rather than something that needs to be fixed or changed. Our work may involve making sense of your experiences, understanding your needs, exploring identity, and finding ways of navigating life that feel sustainable and authentic.
I recognise that many neurodivergent people may have spent years feeling different, overwhelmed, or exhausted from trying to adapt to environments that don’t always understand or accommodate their needs. I offer a warm, authentic and non-judgemental space where you don’t need to mask or feel pressure to fit in. I support a diverse range of neurodivergent experiences, including those who self-identify or are exploring their neurodivergence.
How I Work
I work within a Humanistic Integrative approach, drawing on different therapeutic theories and adapting my approach to create a flexible, collaborative process that is tailored to your individual needs. Rather than focusing solely on difficulties or challenges, I see you as a whole person with your own experiences, strengths, values, and unique way of making sense of the world. Together, we can explore your experiences within the context of your life as a whole.
I recognise that you are the expert in your own experience. My role is not to tell you what you should do, but to offer a supportive and non-judgemental space where we can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences together. Through this process, we can develop greater self-awareness, understand patterns and perspectives, and explore opportunities for growth and change that feel aligned with your values, at a pace that feels right for you.
Registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
Registered with the Information Commissioner's Office (ICO)
Enhanced DBS checked
CPCAB Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling
CPCAB Level 3 Certificate in Counselling Studies
CPCAB Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Skills
Certificate in Online and Telephone Counselling
Certificate in Working Therapeutically with Autistic Clients
Understanding Autism
Understanding ADHD

Online & Telephone Counselling
Online video and telephone sessions offer a flexible way to access counselling from a place where you feel comfortable. Remote sessions can reduce the challenges of travelling, unfamiliar environments, sensory demands, and changes to routine, while allowing us to work in a way that suits your needs.
I offer remote counselling for adults aged 18+ across the UK. If you are unsure whether remote counselling feels right for you, we can talk this through and find a way of working together that feels comfortable and supportive.
How does it work?
Online video sessions take place through a secure Zoom meeting. You can join using a computer, tablet, or phone with a camera. I will send you a link before your session. When you join, you will enter a waiting area and I will invite you into the session at our agreed time.
Telephone sessions take place via pre-arranged phone call. We can discuss whether you would prefer me to call you or for you to call me. If you would like to use Zoom but prefer not to have your camera on, audio-only Zoom sessions are also possible.
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Sessions & Costs
Free Initial Consultation
Reaching out for counselling can feel daunting, and I understand that its important that we both feel we are a good fit to work together. I offer a free, no-obligation video or telephone consultation where we can go through any questions you might have, explore how I might be able to support you, and agree any adjustments that may help you feel comfortable.
Sessions
Counselling sessions will usually take place on a weekly basis, and we can regularly review how you are finding sessions, to make sure they continue to feel helpful and that you're getting what you need from our work together.
£50 per 50-minute session
Benefits of Remote Counselling
Access counselling from a place where you feel comfortable and at ease.
Flexible options to choose online video or telephone sessions depending on your preferences.
Remote sessions can reduce the challenges of travelling, unfamiliar environments, or sensory demands.
Zoom provides a secure platform to support privacy and confidentiality.
Telephone sessions provide the option to access support without a visual presence.
Things to consider
Online and telephone counselling may not be the right option for everyone. It may be helpful to consider:
Would you prefer face-to-face counselling?
Do you have a private space where you feel comfortable talking without being overheard?
Do you have access to a suitable device and internet connection for online sessions?
Would seeing each other and having visual cues help you feel more connected?
You’re welcome to reach out, and we can discuss your preferences and circumstances to find a way of working together that feels comfortable and supportive.
Urgent Support Information
Please note that I am unable to provide emergency or crisis support. If you are in immediate danger or feel unable to keep yourself safe, please call 999 or go to the nearest hospital’s Accident & Emergency (A&E) department and ask for help.
If you feel you are in crisis and would like to talk to someone, you can contact your GP or call 111.
For 24/7 emotional support, you can also call Samaritans on 116 123 or text "SHOUT" to 85258.
FAQs
What is counselling and how can it help me?
Counselling is a talking therapy, which takes place in a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore and process your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
Counselling can help to make connections, recognize patterns, increase your awareness and understanding of yourself, as well as your relationships to others and the world around you. It can also help to develop coping strategies and greater self-acceptance. Ultimately, as your counsellor, my aim is to help you to find your own answers and to make decisions, choices and changes that align with your values and beliefs.
Do you follow a code of ethics?
I’m a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I work within the BACP Ethical Framework and good practice, with your best interests at the heart of our work together. As part of my ethical commitment, I am required to upkeep continued professional development and attend regular Counselling Supervision. This is to ensure that I’m working ethically, safely and effectively.
What is Supervision?
I have regular Supervision with a qualified Supervisor, which involves discussing and reflecting on my process, theoretical understanding and approach to supporting my clients with what they have brought to counselling. Therefore, this involves discussing some of the content of our sessions. However, no personally identifiable information such as your name is used, and Supervision follows the same procedures for confidentiality as counselling.
Is Counselling confidential?
Face to Face sessions will take place in a private and confidential room space. I use a secure, encrypted online meeting room provider for online sessions and a regular phone call for telephone sessions. I use a secure and encrypted email provider for email communication. The content of our counselling sessions is confidential apart from in the following exceptions:
- Risk of serious harm. I may need to break confidentiality and speak to relevant agencies or services if I’m concerned that you or someone else is at risk of serious harm. Where possible, I would aim to explore this with you first, however, I may need to prioritise safety and risk of harm.
- Legal requirements. I’m legally required to break confidentiality if information is disclosed about involvement in or knowledge of an act of terrorism, money laundering or drug trafficking. I have legal requirement to report concerns of harm or abuse to a minor or vulnerable adult. I'm also legally required to release notes upon court order from a judge.
- Clinical Supervision. Supervision involves exploring and reflecting on my client work with a qualified counselling supervisor, this involves discussing some of the content of our sessions. Supervision is anonymised and follows the same procedures for confidentiality as I've outlined.
Accounting purposes. It may be necessary to provide my accounting information to official organisations (e.g. accountancy firms, banks, HMRC) which may disclose a record of your name and payment to me.
Is my information kept safe?
Your personal information is kept safely, securely and confidentially, either stored in locked cabinet or password encrypted on a computer. You can find out more about this in my privacy policy here. Email correspondence is encouraged through a secure mail server.
Will there be a formal contract?
I provide a contract that outlines the framework of our work together. Once we’ve discussed and explored this together, and you have read, understand and agree the terms explained, I will ask you to sign the contract to show that you agree to these terms and consent for counselling sessions to begin.
How many sessions will I have?
Ultimately, I will be led by you, however we can either work to an agreed short-term number of sessions, or long-term ongoing counselling, going at your pace and ending counselling when you’re ready.
How do I start counselling?
To arrange to start counselling, please fill out the secure web form at the bottom of the page. Please note that I aim to respond to queries within 24 hours.
What will happen in our initial consultation?
I understand that it’s important that you find a counsellor who is the right fit for you, so I offer a free, no obligation, online video or telephone consultation. In this, we can explore what's brought you to counselling, go through any questions that you might have, discuss how I might be able to support you and any reasonable adjustments that you might find helpful.
What will happen in our first session?
Session one is a bit different from the other sessions that follow. Its useful for me to get a bit more of an overview of your life, what has brought you to counselling and what you would like to focus on. Therefore, in our first session, I may be asking more questions than usual, and about specific things. There’s no pressure, and it’s just a chance for me to get to know you better. Otherwise, our counselling sessions are your time to use as you want, whether that be exploring the same topic each week, or whatever you feel like talking about on the day.
Do you offer reduced costs for trainee counsellors?
Yes. I’m able to offer a reduced cost for trainee counsellors for the duration of your required personal counselling hours. This can be explored together.
Do you work with neurodivergent clients?
Yes. I’m an Autism-Informed Counsellor and I’m passionate about supporting neurodivergent clients with the unique challenges and difficulties that you might face. I have personal experience in neurodivergence, and I focus on Autism and ADHD as key areas in my continuous professional development and training.
Do you work with children and young people?
No. I currently only work with clients who are 18+.
Do you offer couples counselling?
No. I currently only offer individual counselling.
Do you work internationally?
No. I currently only work with clients who live within the UK.





